Whatever finicky tendencies I had as a child (ketchup on mac and cheese, anyone?), I left them all behind once I hit college in New York City. There is a whole world of food on that little island: sushi, burritos, bagels and lox, spanakopita, sesame chicken, kim chi, soul food, falafels, and on and on. I became an enthusiastic believer in trying new things.
This characteristic has served me well in Portugal.
Octopus, blood sausage, pig trotters, tripe, snails, and fried sardines-- they all require a bit of fearless tasting for me, whereas they are second nature to Bacalhau Boy and his clan. When my family came to visit last year, my sister-in-law won the prize for most culinarily adventurous by tucking into a pig snout from the elaborate platter of meats my father-in-law proudly presented for lunch.
Now, to be fair, Bacalhau Boy is no grand fan of offal or entrails. We rarely eat snout. But this past week I craved the taste of summer-- the kind of summer which my inner child's tastebuds would recognize. I made
pulled pork sandwiches with
homemade cole slaw on top. I made a chilled
sriracha macaroni salad that left my mouth tingling with delicious spiciness. I grilled cheeseburgers American style-- WITH the bun, eaten by hand.
But oh, how the pendulum of married life swings.
I filled my belly with familiar deliciousness. Also, I watched my dear BB good-naturedly eat the mayonnaise-laced cole slaw and the vinegar-based barbecue sauce and the spicy sriracha salad despite his hatred of mayonnaise, vinegar, and spicy foods. I felt a teensy bit bad for him, even though I couldn't understand his weirdo tastebuds.
Finally, once my inner child was appeased, I figured it was time to take pity. The next night I made my honey some real Portuguese comfort food.